You have just met someone new, you are attracted, the conversations are nice and you have a great time, but is it a momentary connection or the beginning of something more lasting? While it may seem hasty, there are ways to distinguish when a relationship is going to be temporary and when it can be more serious, you just have look for signs that you are compatible with that person.
1. You feel comfortable with him
Pretending to be someone you're not is normal when you do on a first date, especially if you're trying to impress someone. However, if you feel comfortable with someone that you do not need to pretend to be someone else, it means that you have found a person worth living with.
On the other hand, if that person makes you feel insecure or feel the need to change aspects of your personality to please him, then it is a bad sign: being with a person who does not accept you as you are will not make you happy.
2. You have things in common
Music, books, movies, these things matter even if they seem insignificant. Having tastes in common can help them feel closer in the early stages of a relationship and can be a kick to deeper conversations. They can also share experiences that bring them closer, such as going to a concert or to the movies together, for example.
On the other hand, good values are more important than entertainment and if they are aligned, then there is a very good chance that a serious relationship could flourish.
3. He makes you really laugh
Smiling out of courtesy so that the other person does not feel bad is very common, but genuine laughter is an act that can say more than you think. Finding a person who shares the same sense of humor that you do is key to a lasting relationship.
4. He makes time to see you
It is very difficult to set aside time to see a new person when you have other commitments, such as work, study or family. That's why when two people make effort in their busy schedule, it means they are willing to work and strive to be with the other, that is a great sign that things can be serious.
On the contrary, if you propose dates and he always has an excuse or another commitment, let him go. Unless he cannot see you for a good reason, do yourself a favor and find someone who DOES make time for you.
5. He loves to talk to you
It is increasingly rare that people communicate by phone. Nowadays, communication occurs almost exclusively through text messages, and that can often lead to some misunderstandings. An "ok" can only be interpreted as being angry because it does not have a smiling emoji at the end, for example.
However, you know that you have found a special person when they actually enjoy talking to you through text messages or phone calls.
These are some of the signs that indicate that you have found a suitable person for a relationship, but the most important is your intuition—it never fails.
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